A simple string of things to explore……
Pose the question to yourself….
If your life could look like anything, what would you want it to look like?
Be specific. Picture yourself in your ideal life. What do you look like? What are you doing? Where are you living? Who is with you? What are you wearing? Is it sunny? Cloudy? Warm? Cold? …….get as vivid of a picture as you can.
Also pay attention to the things in your life that are already congruent with the ideal life image. Because often there are a lot more than we think there are.
What choices would you need to make to get there from where you are at now?
What things would you need to let go of?
Think about your life right now.
Are there things that are not serving you? Are there people in your life, either directly or in the peripherals that create disharmony?
Are there things in your life that you just don’t like? Of those things, which ones can you reasonably let go of?
It really can be as simple as making choices to let go of things that create disharmony in your life.
We make things much more complicated than they need to be. We worry about what others will think, how they will view us, and what they will say about us.
The reality is that we have to live with ourselves. We live our life.
Most of the time the things we worry about will be a big deal, really aren’t. Nobody cares much beyond a moment. But you are the only YOU you got forever.
Make the small changes
They will create big ripples.
Live the life you want to be living.
Anything other than that, makes no sense.
You got one life.
Make it the one you want.